Teens, Possessiveness & Relationships!

The life of teens is never complete without two words which do not exist without each other.- LOVE & JEALOUSY! Where there is love there has to be jealousy and where there is jealousy, will exist. Many teens now a days are in relationships and jealousy & possessiveness are integral parts of it. Most of the times the boys are possessive towards the girl. They don't like girls talking to other boys. It makes them feel insecure. But, they don't understand that it is just girls are being friendly. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that girls cant talk to boys. On the other hand the situation is pretty much the same. Some girls are too possessive that they don't even allow boys to talk to girls.Some people might be okay with it but some might not!
This can cause many problems in relationships. If the trust and love isn't strong then it'll surely be the reason behind the break up. All teens in a relationship you should know that being possessive will just increase the problems except in some exceptional cases where your partner loves you a lot and doesn't want to lose you. The cause of being possessive is the lack of trust. If you have the trust on your partner then you would not be possessive! Being possessive will pop up questions in yur partner's mind about how much you trust him/her. This can lead to problems also.
Well, your intention might not be to hurt your partner nor it wouldn't mean that you don't trust your partner. Teens you gotta understand that your partner is possessive not because he/she feels insecure or doesn't trust you but he/she cares for you, loves you and doesn't want to lose you! Don't possessiveness into something else and break your relationship! Follow it and you will surely prosper in your relationship!
One thing in the end:- "Relationship isn't a game. Its about feelings. If you don't have them don't make some else's your."

Sibling Relationships & Teens

Teens all around the world have a problem with their siblings. Whether they are the elder ones or the younger ones, they always have a problem. The elder ones complain that the younger ones are getting more benefits than they are. The younger ones are using my things and other thousands of silly complains. We never realise that they are interested in the things we do. They are curious to know what's so interesting. They too want to try out and be like their elder siblings. They want to follow their siblings footsteps. We get furious over it and often get angry. Sometimes anger also turns into violence. These are signs of bad sibling relationship. The violence might have a negative impact on the younger siblings and this might lead to other numerous problems.
     The younger ones say that their elder ones are given permission to go out and why not us. Younger siblings never look after their age. They will get what their elder siblings are getting when time comes. There is not gonna be any restriction once the right time has come. Simply complaining will not help. But, it'll increase the problems for you. More complaining will lead to parents getting more frustrated and this will delay your freedom period.
 All teens, younger, elder, or both.. dont complain a time will come when everything will go your way and yes, respect your siblings! :)

Teen-Parent Relationship

Parents are a essential part of everyone's life. They are the reason we are here in this beautiful world. They sacrifice many things just for us. They are our friends. We have the right to approach them anywhere, anytime. They scold us but remember they do so only for our benefit. They dont have any grudge as such. They want us to succeed in our life and move in the right path. They often scold us and also hit us for some reasons which we might think our silly. But no, they know better. They have had many life experiences than us. They know what is good and what is bad. We are everything for them in their lives. They always think of keeping us happy whether they are or not. We, on the other hand disrespect them and make them feel dejected. We should understand that what they do is going to benefit us now or in the coming near future. We should follow their advice in certain situations where they have more experience. Asking advice for the choosing a hobby would be silly because you might not have the same interest in the stuff they have. We might have fun going for late night parties and pubs, but parents know the danger in doing so. Taking drugs might be cool for us but only our parents know the consequences thereafter. Teens, respect your parents, follow their advice and lead a happy life ahead.