The life of teens is never complete without two words which do not exist without each other.- LOVE & JEALOUSY! Where there is love there has to be jealousy and where there is jealousy, will exist. Many teens now a days are in relationships and jealousy & possessiveness are integral parts of it. Most of the times the boys are possessive towards the girl. They don't like girls talking to other boys. It makes them feel insecure. But, they don't understand that it is just girls are being friendly. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that girls cant talk to boys. On the other hand the situation is pretty much the same. Some girls are too possessive that they don't even allow boys to talk to girls.Some people might be okay with it but some might not!
This can cause many problems in relationships. If the trust and love isn't strong then it'll surely be the reason behind the break up. All teens in a relationship you should know that being possessive will just increase the problems except in some exceptional cases where your partner loves you a lot and doesn't want to lose you. The cause of being possessive is the lack of trust. If you have the trust on your partner then you would not be possessive! Being possessive will pop up questions in yur partner's mind about how much you trust him/her. This can lead to problems also.
Well, your intention might not be to hurt your partner nor it wouldn't mean that you don't trust your partner. Teens you gotta understand that your partner is possessive not because he/she feels insecure or doesn't trust you but he/she cares for you, loves you and doesn't want to lose you! Don't possessiveness into something else and break your relationship! Follow it and you will surely prosper in your relationship!
One thing in the end:- "Relationship isn't a game. Its about feelings. If you don't have them don't make some else's your."
This can cause many problems in relationships. If the trust and love isn't strong then it'll surely be the reason behind the break up. All teens in a relationship you should know that being possessive will just increase the problems except in some exceptional cases where your partner loves you a lot and doesn't want to lose you. The cause of being possessive is the lack of trust. If you have the trust on your partner then you would not be possessive! Being possessive will pop up questions in yur partner's mind about how much you trust him/her. This can lead to problems also.
Well, your intention might not be to hurt your partner nor it wouldn't mean that you don't trust your partner. Teens you gotta understand that your partner is possessive not because he/she feels insecure or doesn't trust you but he/she cares for you, loves you and doesn't want to lose you! Don't possessiveness into something else and break your relationship! Follow it and you will surely prosper in your relationship!
One thing in the end:- "Relationship isn't a game. Its about feelings. If you don't have them don't make some else's your."
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